A steady, fulfilling relationship is a wonderful thing, but sometimes a guy may want to stretch the boundaries a little bit. While for some couples this can lead to “roaming,” others recognize that the desire to “spice things up” is natural and turn to sex games as a way of keeping the fire alive in a relationship. Of course, even partners in a new relationship – or a one-night stand, for that matter – may also enjoy sex games. On top of maintaining good penis health, throwing some games into the mix is one of the best sex tips out there.
The spice of life
Variety is said to be the spice of life, and the sex games available to a couple are limited only by their imaginations (and preferences, of course). Below is a sampling of some activities that they may wish to explore; it is by no means a complete list!
Authority figure role playing
Role playing games are a staple of sex play and for a good reason: They enable the participants to be someone else, which can give them permission to act in ways new to them and to experience sex and the relationship from a totally different point of view. Many couples enjoy role playing in which one of the partners pretends to be an authority figure.
For example, the woman may pretend to be a judge while the man may be the defendant who has been brought to her court. From that starting point, the play can go in several ways. Perhaps the man is there because he has a compulsion to display his penis in public and, while in the judge’s presence, keeps pulling out his member, causing her to grow more and more aroused. Another variation could be that the man is accused of a non-sexual offense, but the judge is attracted to him and is forcing him to display himself and then satisfy her sexual longings in order to avoid a jail sentence.
There are many other authority figures – police officers, teachers, bosses, etc. – that may also be explored in this kind of role playing.
Strip poker is a very popular sex game, with players betting pieces of clothing until one or both are naked. Watching one’s partner removing clothing can be quite stimulating. Some people continue the play after a partner is naked, with bets involving the partner masturbating if s/he loses, or performing oral sex on the winner, etc.
One can strip at games other than poker, of course: Scrabble, hangman, chess, checkers, dice, etc. Almost any game can include an element of stripping or other sex play.
Eroticism is kicked up a notch when one of the participants is blindfolded. Having one’s body lightly touched while blindfolded heightens the sensation enormously. Having one’s clothes removed while blindfolded is also a sexy and exciting experience, especially if the partner takes his/her time in removing each piece of clothing and explores the partner’s skin with hands, tongue, feet, etc.
A scavenger hunt? Yes, with the trick that the items on the list are all sex toys – penis rings, vibrators, etc. – which must be used on one or both of the partners before moving on to the next item. (For extra fun, include some everyday items that the hunter must find a way to use in a sensual manner.)
The already excited penis will become ecstatic while playing these sex games. To make sure the manhood is in good health for these activities, a man can regularly use a first-rate penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). Ideally, the cream should contain L-arginine, an enzyme that helps produce nitric oxide, which is an important component in keeping blood vessels open. It’s also a good idea to select a cream that includes vitamin C, which is well-known for its role in collagen production and penile tissue firmness.